Hey Everyone!
As international students, we've all had those moments when cultural differences led to funny misunderstandings. These experiences not only make us laugh but also teach us valuable lessons about our host countries and their unique customs.
🕺 Any funny cultural misunderstandings you’ve experienced while living abroad?
I'll start with my own story:
Coming from a society where it's customary to insist on helping elderly people with their heavy groceries or luggage, I thought I was doing a good deed. But when I tried to help an elderly person in France, I was met with a suspicious look and a firm "Non, merci!" I quickly learned that in France, it's considered crossing the boundaries rather than a kind gesture!
But here's a plot twist that gives me hope: Recently, I offered to help a woman in a grocery store (Auchan), and to my surprise, she was delighted and kept talking about how such a gentlemanly act was rare and appreciated. This made me realize that kindness can still be valued, even if it’s not always expected.
Now, I want to hear from you!
🌍 Have you ever had a cultural mishap due to different customs or traditions? 😅 Any funny experiences with everyday interactions that were new to you? 💬 What's the most unexpected reaction you’ve received because of a cultural difference?
Let’s spread some laughter by sharing our funniest cultural misunderstandings. Whether it’s a mix-up with local customs, a language slip-up, or just a silly mishap, we want to hear it!
Can’t wait to laugh along with all of you!

Calling full grown tax-paying adults by their first name 😭 my boss doesn't even blink, and even insisted when I first met her, to address her by her first name. The lord knows if I did this back at home I would've had shoes of all different makes thrown my way. Even now, it feels so wrong when I address all my coworkers, who are easily 25-30 years older than me, by their first name. But cultural differences ig?
Hopefully nothing like that happened to me although I am a kind person but I think 110 times of I should help them or anything but at my part time job I do help because I think that's job although it's just a good experience mostly elderly people needy help so like giving them extra chair keeping eye at there belonging when they are giving oder they mostly ask me for it and sometimes I do myself and they say so much sweet words for little help I really love how they appreciate ( I just start loveing my job because of that 😅)
I think that’s such an interesting experience you had! Kind of shows how even if it’s not that country’s custom, maybe you can bring your kind deeds to them and they’ll be glad! I do understand how an old lady would be more delighted than an old man hahahahah
Mine would be calling everyone by their first names; bosses, professors, elders etc. 😵💫 In my culture we use honorific-like words to show respect. You can have a close relationship but still use the honorifics. It doesn't mean you're a cold person or your relationship isn't close. Indeed when you use them, you came across as more genuine. For instance, my professors were always available and open to questions, but I still addressed them as professors. So when I moved to Sweden, it was quite a shock to call everyone by their first names, even your professors at the university. It still feels unnatural to me, but I try to adapt. 😅